I am a retired grandmother of six grandsons. My professional background includes 20 years in clinical laboratory work and 30 years in our family-owned hospitality businesses. In my free time, I enjoy hiking, traveling, cooking, spending time with horses, and reading.
I became a CASA because I wanted to make a difference in society rather than complain about what is wrong with “this generation.” I currently have two cases with Native American children that are nearing completion. In one case, a little girl will joyfully be reunited with her four siblings in a foster family that maintains close ties with their grandmother.
My other case involves two adorable but behaviorally challenged girls. It has been difficult to witness the impact of trauma and mental health challenges on both the parents and the children. Navigating therapies, education, and daycare has been especially complex in this situation. The girls are currently in a kinship placement with their grandmother, who has done a tremendous job ensuring they receive the care they need, keeping up with therapies, appointments, and providing a loving home. Guardianship is being considered, and I truly admire the dedication and commitment the grandmother has shown.
I believe my biggest impact has been letting families know that someone else truly cares and helping them find additional resources and opportunities. I also love supporting placements and parents by reminding them of the good job they are doing, especially during moments when it may not feel that way to them.
I find deep gratitude in being part of creating positive change. The outcomes are not always what we envision, but not trying is the only true failure. My advice to new Advocates is to recognize humanity in everyone involved—even when things are messy.
